
It's healthy for couples to argue things out every now and then. Unfortunately for us, we argue so much that it is at such an unhealthy level. I'm starting to learn to maintain composure, even when I feel like yelling back. It truly saved the day. Even in the midst of healing from yesterday, an older argument resurfaced. Holding down the argument as best I could, I asked him afterwards if we could please just move on and we did. Conversation was still bitterly awkward at first, but we've worked our way to place where we are now. The atmosphere has lightened up a lot more and we're hopefully going to see each other tomorrow. That was probably the first time we have accomplished anything relative to having an argument and making up 5 minutes later. Honestly, I prefer to argue with him and get everything out over the idea of not talking to him for an entire day. It kills me to be alone in that state, sulking and worrying. Khristian told me it's for a cool off period because most guys, including himself, would rather not blow up in a loved one's face. But if this is the best way, then I'll just have to make due. Photo is of the bracelet I've started to work on for myself. I'm really excited to finally start this one, but it's a bitch!
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